Life before Death. Strength and Courage. Finding Meaning.

Resilience, Rethinking your thinking traps, meaning, Post Traumatic Growth

Resilience, Rethinking your thinking traps, meaning, Post Traumatic Growth

I believe in life before death. 

In my past, I forgot to appreciate what was true and real, and forgot to enjoy the moment, enjoy what I had.

I see in my clients, who I now think the Universe brings to me to mirror my own journey, the same struggles:

We work too much, eat too much, diet too much, deprive ourselves of fun too much, drink too much, shop too much, try to please others too much. And still there’s this hunger inside us that goes unfed.

How are you living your life today, now, in this moment?
What do you desire, crave, yearn for that you could have NOW?

What are you putting off, sweetie pie?
Why wait? 


Life is for YOU. Today. Now.

 

My mission is to help people (mainly women, but yes, some awesome dudes, as well) accept and love themselves back to health. To help people focus and build on their strengths as a way to heal and find meaning in life. To help us all learn skilled resilience.

To turn away from what I call the “Diet Industrial Complex” which has us hating our bodies, ignoring our desires, and shaming each other.

Join me – www.WomenFoodAndDesire.com 

3 Ways To Turn Your Cravings Into Your Spiritual To-Do List

What if your cravings were your allies, instead of something to war against?

What if the messages from your body, for food, sleep, sexual intimacy, movement, and inspiration, were showing you the happiest, healthiest path forward in your unique life?

Women, Food And Desire helps you uncover the wisdom in your body's messages

Women, Food And Desire helps you uncover the wisdom in your body’s messages

After working for over 12 years with nutrition clients around the globe, I’ve seen that the best way to help people create a diet and lifestyle that gets them the energy and body they desire is to listen to their body and cravings.

 

Cravings come from four root sources: bacterial, nutritional, emotional, and physical. Bacterial imbalance in the digestive system can cause raging sugar cravings to feed the yeasts and fungi that need carbohydrates to survive. Mineral and vitamin deficiencies lead the body to crave foods that provide a burst of energy, or a reliable hit of missing nutrients. Emotional cravings for joy, connection, and calm can result in yearnings for sugar and fat to help calm the physical manifestations of fear, anger, and anxiety. As human-animals, we forget that our bodies are designed to thrive with consistent, enlivening movement. And we are built to seek physical pleasure. But our sedentary, physically disconnected lifestyle keeps us from touching each other, or finding joy in moving our bodies.

 

We have been enculturated or “brainwashed” out of connection with our body, and feel ashamed of our desires and cravings. The overlap between sensual pleasures from food and companionship get us twisted into knots and we replace food for real intimacy.

 

After my divorce, I finally began listening to my own body’s cravings for meat, after being a strict vegan for over ten years, and my cravings for physical connection and intimacy with a lover. Rather than judging myself for breaking dietary and cultural rules about what is appropriate for a young mother and health coach to eat and experience, I listened to my body and gave “her” what she was asking for: men, and meat.

 

As I’ve coached hundreds of women in the last few years to start listening to their own bodies, I’ve seen joyous results in healing and lives transformed: and end to physical pain and a lifetime of body shame, new career possibilities followed, and marriages transformed.

 

Our bodies speak our truth to us, in subtle, and not-so subtle ways, every moment. Our minds are filled with other people’s agendas, religious rules, and media-induced judgments about how we should look, love, and live. We need to begin listening to the wisdom that emanates from our own bodies. Your body does not lie. It is incapable of invention. Be willing to listen in, and discover what your cravings really mean.

Top 3 Ways To Turn Your Cravings Into Your To-Do List

  1. Next time you have a food craving, stop and close your eyes: what is your body wanting right now, besides food? Are you tired? Stressed? Frustrated? Angry? What is your desired state of being? What can you do besides eat to feel rested, relaxed, or hopeful? Do that now.
  2. When choosing your next meal, take into account how you want to feel over the next twelve hours. If you need to be focused, try eating lean protein and cooked greens. If you need to be creative and outgoing, what foods will help you get into that headspace? If you want to feel calm, and relaxed, perhaps it’s best to avoid the sugary cupcake and instead try chamomile tea with a baked apple and cinnamon. The key here is to eat foods that will help you feel how you want to feel, in a healthy way.
  3. Write down the top 10 things you desire for your life in 2015. Now circle the three most frightening or challenging and take action on the one that you know would get you closer to creating your big life’s vision.

Sweet Potato Pudding – gluten-free pudding recipe, dairy-free pudding recipe, vegan pudding recipe

Sweet Potato Pudding

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Yield: 1 serving

  • 2 Red Garnet sweet potatoes
  • 1 tablespoon pure maple syrup
  • pinch cinnamon
  • pinch pink Himalayan salt
  • ¼ teaspoon vanilla extract

1. Preheat oven to 400F. Wrap potatoes in foil and cook for 60 minutes. Remove from oven to cool.

2. Peel skins with a pairing knife and place flesh in a food processor. Add maple syrup, cinnamon, pink Himalayan salt and vanilla extract. Process for 10 seconds, scrape sides and process 10 more seconds.

3. Enjoy!

To Crave Is Human: Women, Food & Desire

It’s time to stop counting calories…
time to stop giving up our power to the “diet industrial complex”…
and ask ourselves, what do my body and soul truly crave?

Healing. Strength. Energy. Resilience. Juicy Mojo. 
This is what we want.

The book arrives 1/6. Put these ideas into action now – I’ve created a free 50+ recipe cookbook for you – get it here: www.womenfoodanddesire.com

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Eggless Nog Smoothie: Sweet Potato Smoothie | Eggless EggNog Recipe

Eggnog is one of my favorite holiday treats – but now that I know I’m egg-sensitive, I had to put on my thinking-chef’s hat

and get creative in the kitchen -

which I love doing!

eggless nog smoothie

I used some leftover, naturally sweet garnet yams as the base. This thickened the smoothie, and added great fiber.

I’ve been feeling very “featherweight” lately, which is one of my cravings types (I’m a dual type, also Fire Brand, or Pitta)

and wanted to add some spices that would help me feel warm and comfy.

Earth Mama/Papa types can add some ginger to this recipe to help them feel more energized and uplifted!

Don’t know your cravings type? Take the free quiz here and get your type and report! 

Eggless Nog Smoothie Recipe:

12 ounces unsweetened almond or coconut milk
½ cup water
1 cup cooked sweet potato (peeled)
2-3 pitted Medjool dates (the big juicy ones) cut in half
1/2 tsp. vanilla extract
1/2 tsp. cinnamon
1/2 tsp fresh nutmeg

Combine all ingredients in the blender.

Blend, pour, sip and smile!

Saying ‘no’ – on boundaries and cravings

 

 

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The body sets boundaries for us all the time, but how well do we listen and head the body’s message? 

Saying ‘no’ is as important as saying ‘yes!’

Saying no to other people’s to-dos, and saying yes to more quality sleep.

Saying no to the diet industrial complex, its rules and size requirements, and saying yes to deep, true healing.

Saying no to the fast food lifestyle, and instead embracing real food.

Saying no to a life of punishment, deprivation, and lack-luster experiences, and saying YES to pleasure, fun, and play!

This is the call. Will you answer it?


Get the free 50+ recipe e-cookbook that puts all this into action:www.womenfoodanddesire.com

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When we respect our cravings, real transformation is possible.

WFD image 1   We need to start listening to our bodies, rather than the “diet industrial complex.” We’ve handed over our power to heal and our deep inner knowing to outside “experts” and “gurus” for far too long. We stopped listening to and trusting our cravings and bodies so long ago, that we’ve been at war with ourselves. This war is killing us. We diet too much, eat too much, work too hard, worry too much, schedule too much, play too little, drink too much, shop too much, and touch too little. And there’s this big, gaping hole inside of us that will never be filled will the food, “success,” to-do lists, or new shoes. It’s time to listen to our bodies, and follow our cravings, to the life we truly desire.

Order the book today: www.womenfoodanddesire.com

Get 7+ awesome bonuses, plus the 50+ recipe cookbook that puts all of this into action, in your kitchen, today. Free. Yup.

xo, Alex

Top 50 Mindful Eating Sites of 2014

 

 

Cool news! We’ve been chosen as one of the top Mindful Eating Sites of 2014!

The top blogs were chosen based on a number of criteria including:

  • sharing research-based, practical information on nutritious eating
  • tips for ending emotional eating
  • advocating approaches other than fad dieting
  • sound psychological strategies for ending mindless eating and developing a better relationship with food

These sites were chosen by www.eatingmindfully.com, a website that has provided information on mindful eating since 2001 by Dr. Susan Albers, psychologist and author of six books on mindful eating including the books, Eating Mindfully, EatQ and 50 Ways to Soothe Yourself Without Food, an early pioneer in the field of mindful eating.

It’s an honor to be featured amongst some of my favorite sites, including Summer Tomato, Geneen Roth, and Dr. Frank Lipman.

Check out the other sites and get some powerful inspiration! 

xo,

Alex

how “it’s not that bad” is killing us – reset your adrenals now

Feeling run down…

Tired and wrung out…

Lost my mojo…

Weight loss resistant…

Irritable and moody…

This state of being is all too common – I hear it from my clients, readers, and even from myself.

And this way of “living” is killing us.

Slowly but surely, our exhaustion and overwhelm are destroying our vitality, and it’s time to end the suffering.

Our adrenals are suffering, and they are off-balance, causing:

-insomnia

-out of control sugar cravings

-hormone imbalance

-weight gain, anger and depression

If any of this resonates with you, and you’re ready to heal your body, and get your vitality back, please watch this video I made with Dr. Alan Christianson about his new book, The Adrenal Reset Diet.

This new book is my map to better energy, healed sleeping patterns and hormonal stability.
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Dr. Alan is a brilliant, kind, generous man, and I’m lucky to call him my friend!

You can pre-order Dr. Alan’s book here,

or go to his website and learn more about his work, recommendations, and more:

BIG news: UK version of Women, Food & Desire is available for pre-order!

So excited about this cover!

The UK version of Women, Food and Desire is available for pre-order!

Click here to order: 

Can’t wait to get my hands on this version of my book-baby…

Women, Food & Desire UK